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Focused on life, health, career and fun of loving it all. I am spontaneously passionate, fun, energetic, intelligent, open-minded and a very "real" person. I am D & D free..and you must be too. I have an appetite for sex that challenges many but am not unwise in my choices, as desperation is not my guidance. I have joined this site seeking like minded men and couples, who understand the joy of sexual exploration and who are seeking a life enhancing experience without drama, falseness, or a bunch of mind games. There must also be more to you than your fantastic manly member...intelligence and the ability to carry a conversation about topics other than sex are a must...if you send me a pic, send me one with your gorgeous smile(s). That alludes realism to me. Hmmmm....okay, I'll lay down some honesty here. I have a very obvious preference for men of color...absolutely no offense meant to all others but hey we all have our preferences...and at least I admit mine. Other preferences...yeah, call me picky! I love smooth skin and shaved heads...the less body hair the better...I follow the same rule *wink*...and hygiene, well we don't need to go there do we. Let's just say it's VERY important to me!

I am the type of person that likes to enjoy an experience in every aspect. Sex is bottom line what it is all about but to enjoy the mental aspect of the planning and the fantasy is a huge turn before we ever even meet. I like to chat on IM to get to know what you are about before we meet to get down and dirty...and I do mean DIRTY!!! YOU MUST SHOW RESPECT!!! I am into just about everything but the timing and the mood MUST be right. SHOW RESPECT AND YOU CAN PROBABLY GET AWAY WITH JUST ABOUT ANYTHING!!! I am looking to meet any one and every one who knows how to have fun. Let loose and just do what feels right for everyone involved. RESPECT is a MUST!!! I am totally into having the best time possible when we get together!! I am NOT into wasting time!! I do like to chat before we meet on IM so that I can get a feel for what you like and how you like it. I can be dominant or submissive...I like it just about any way you can think of. Contact me and lets see if we can help each other fulfill our needs and DEEP, DEEP desires!!! I'll be waiting to hear from you, hopefully soon!!!

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